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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

 رَبِّ اشْرَحْ لِي صَدْرِي ; وَيَسِّرْ لِي أَمْرِي ; وَاحْلُلْ عُقْدَةً مِنْ لِسَانِي ; يَفْقَهُوا قَوْلِي

إِنَّ اللَّهَ عِنْدَهُ عِلْمُ السَّاعَةِ وَيُنَزِّلُ الْغَيْثَ وَيَعْلَمُ مَا فِي الأَرْحَامِ وَمَا تَدْرِي نَفْسٌ مَاذَا تَكْسِبُ غَداً وَمَا تَدْرِي نَفْسٌ بِأَيِّ أَرْضٍ تَمُوتُ إِنَّ اللَّهَ عَلِيمٌ خَبِيرٌ

“Verily Allah, with Him (Alone) is the knowledge of the Hour, He sends down the rain, and know that which is in the wombs. No person knows what he will earn tomorrow, and no person knows in what land he will die. Verily, Allah is All-Knower, All-Aware.”

(Aayah No. 34, Surah Luqman, Chapter No. 31, Holy Qur’an).

The time and place of death of every human is appointed, no one knows about it except Allah. No one knows how many years he (she) is going to live.

Lifespan of this Ummah

The average age of this Ummah is sixty to seventy; have a look at following narration:

Abu Hurairah (RA) narrated that Allah’s Messenger (PBUH) said, “The lifespan of my Ummah is from sixty to seventy (years).”

(Hadith No. 2331, Chapters on Zuhd, Jami’ At-Tirmidhi, Vol. 4).

According to following hadith, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) lived up to 63 years of age:

Narrated Aishah (RA): Allah’s Messenger (PBUH) died when he was sixty-three years of age.

(Hadith No. 4466, Book of Al-Maghazi, Sahih Bukhari, Vol. 5).

Some narrations tell us that Abu Bakr (RA), Umar (RA) and Ali (RA) all died at the age of sixty to seventy.

The average lifespan is told to be 60-70, but some die at an age much younger than that, while some remain alive up to many years more than that. It is all up to Allah, only He knows how much lifespan He has appointed for whom.

Significance of reaching 40 years of age

40 years of age is a very important milestone in the life of a man (woman). Keeping in mind the average lifespan of sixty-seventy years, one who reaches 40 years of age completes about two-thirds of his (her) average lifespan; thereby meaning that he (she) enters into the last third of his (her) life.

Apart from achieving this percentage of lifespan, a man becomes strong (both mentally and physically), he reaches to a stage of maturity, and is able to understand and tackle the highs and lows of all spheres of the life in a reasonable and wise manner. We know that Allah started sending the revelations to Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) when he reached 40.

Allah has emphasized this stage of human life very clearly in Qur’an. Please go through following verse of Holy Qur’an:

وَوَصَّيْنَا الإِنسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ إِحْسَاناً حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ كُرْهاً وَوَضَعَتْهُ كُرْهاً وَحَمْلُهُ وَفِصَالُهُ ثَلاثُونَ شَهْراً حَتَّى إِذَا بَلَغَ أَشُدَّهُ وَبَلَغَ أَرْبَعِينَ سَنَةً قَالَ رَبِّ أَوْزِعْنِي أَنْ أَشْكُرَ نِعْمَتَكَ قَالَ رَبِّ أَوْزِعْنِي أَنْ أَشْكُرَ نِعْمَتَكَ الَّتِي أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيَّ وَعَلَى وَالِدَيَّ وَأَنْ أَعْمَلَ صَالِحاً تَرْضَاهُ وَأَصْلِحْ لِي فِي ذُرِّيَّتِي إِنِّي تُبْتُ إِلَيْكَ وَإِنِّي مِنْ الْمُسْلِمِينَ

“And We have enjoined on man to be dutiful & kind to his parents. His mother bears him with hardship. And she brings him forth with hardship, and the bearing of him and the weaning of him is thirty months, till when he attains full strength and reaches forty years, he says: My Lord! Grant me the power and ability that I may be grateful for Your Favour which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents, and that I may do righteous good deeds, such as please You, and make my off-spring good. Truly, I have turned to You in repentance, and truly, I am one of the Muslims.”

(Aayah No. 15, Surah Al-Ahqaf, Chapter No. 46, Holy Qur’an).

The verse above confirms that a man attains full strength at the age of 40. Moreover, this glorious verse tells about some of the responsibilities of a man when he reaches the age of forty.

The most important thing to be done when one reaches the age of forty is that he/she should make a re-assessment of his own personality, thank Allah for His favours and pray for parents & off-springs. The repentance to Allah should be renewed. One should recite the supplication mentioned in the verse above and abandon all his (her) wrong acts (if any) from that point onwards.

Thus, one should ask Allah to forgive all his/her previous sins and a renewed effort should be made by every individual to ensure that he/she leads his/her remaining life as per Qur’an and Sunnah.

This is a great responsibility for each of us. In fact, it is like a last opportunity for everyone to get his sins forgiven and start anew towards the ultimate goal of entering the Paradise. Do not be shocked when I say it is like a last opportunity. The verse that follows the above mentioned verse explains this statement:

أُوْلَئِكَ الَّذِينَ نَتَقَبَّلُ عَنْهُمْ أَحْسَنَ مَا عَمِلُوا وَنَتَجاوَزُ عَنْ سَيِّئَاتِهِمْ فِي أَصْحَابِ الْجَنَّةِ وَعْدَ الصِّدْقِ الَّذِي كَانُوا يُوعَدُونَ

“They are those from whom We shall accept the best of their deeds and overlook their evil deeds. (They shall be) among the dwellers of Paradise – a promise of truth, which they have been promised.”

(Aayah No. 16, Surah Al-Ahqaf, Chapter No. 46, Holy Qur’an).

It is very clear from this verse that whoever is good with his/her parents, and whoever after reaching the age of 40 supplicates to Allah (as mentioned in Aayah No. 15 earlier), renews his repentance and make efforts to ensure that he leads a righteous life (as per Qur’an and Sunnah), then such are the only people from whom Allah accepts their repentance. Allah forgives the sins of such people and takes in to account only the good deeds of such people. And above all, Allah promises Paradise for such people.

Now give a thought to how important this milestone is. And at the same time those who have already crossed this age should ask themselves: did they act accordingly?

We should be thankful to Allah that he has given us an opportunity of forgiveness at this stage of our lives. Whoever ignores this and keeps himself busy in his usual wrong-doings then there is a chance that it might get too late for such a person, and he may reach a stage in his life where Allah will no longer accept his repentance. Inspiration should be drawn from following narration:

Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA): The Prophet (PBUH) said, “Allah will not accept the excuse of any person whose instant of death is delayed till he is sixty years of age.”

(Hadith No. 6419, Book of Ar-Riqaq, Sahih Bukhari, Vol. 8).

Concluding remarks

Sadly, we all are living in false hopes; busy trying to fulfill our worldly ambitions. While doing so, we ignore our primary duties ordained by Allah. We forget that all these worldly plans at the cost of our duties as a Muslim (ordained by Allah) shall come to an abrupt end when death strikes. This is beautifully explained in following hadith as well:

Narrated Anas bin Malik (RA): The Prophet (PBUH) drew a few lines and said, “This is (man’s) hope, and this is the instant of his death, and while he is in this state (of hope), the nearer line (death) comes to him.”

(Hadith No. 6418, Book of Ar-Riqaq, Sahih Bukhari, Vol. 8).

Then we shall move to a never ending world, the Hereafter, with our actions of this world to decide our fate: Heaven or Hell! May Allah keep all of us away from Hell!

But for that we need to act. So, whoever has reached the age of 40 should get his (her) act together and utilize this opportunity given by Allah. Those who shall be reaching that stage in days to come (Insha’Allah), be prepared.

And Allah knows best.

May Allah forgive me if I am wrong and guide us to the right path…Ameen.

سُبْحَانَ رَبِّكَ رَبِّ الْعِزَّةِ عَمَّا يَصِفُون َ ; وَسَلامٌ عَلَى الْمُرْسَلِينَ ; وَالْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ.

29 comments

  1. Jazakallah Khair

  2. Continued from last mail. i never or hardly prayed , or kept ramdan roza. please help me by sending your mail to me. may Allah bless u and your family for helping people like us who are the great sinner of this world. Allah Hafiz

    • Salam alaikum dear. Your email id ha sbeen included in distribution list. Inshallah you will be getting articles regularly from now on.

      Please work hard towards ensuring that you pray regularly and observing all faraid of Islam. Do not consider yourself as a sinner. Allah is The Most Merciful. Make taubah to Him, and start afresh, anew, now. Inshallah, all shall be well.

      Jazak Allah.

  3. Send me articles written about Fiqih, Aqida, Iman etc
    jazaka allah

    • Salam alaikum warahmatallah brother. If you visit our site in detail (www.quranandhadith.com), you will find many articles about different topics. Also, your email ID shall be added to distribution list so that you receive any new articles on time. Inshallah that shall be beneficial. If you need any further help and onformation, please write back without any hesitation. Jazak Allah.

  4. As Salam walhkum

  5. Assalamu alaiikum Beshaqk allah sab janta hai . quran hsarif aur sahih hadeesh kee roshani main zindagi gujarna tamam aalam ke liiye farz hai hamen eisi roshani main allah rahne kee taufiq de ameen

  6. Jazhakum khair, I will turn 40 this year. Pls include me in your mail list

    • Salam alaikum,

      Your email address has been added to mailing list. Insha’Allah from now on you will get updates about new articles on your email too.

      Jazak Allah.

    • Salam alaikum,

      Your email id has been added to mailing list. Insha’Allah from now on you will be receiving new publications in your email too.

      Jazak Allah.

  7. Verse had open my eye

  8. As salamu alaykum,
    I’ll reach the age of 40 in a half hour east coast US time, please make du’a for me. Barakallah fik!

    • Wa alaikum Salam Warahmatallah,

      May Allah bless you. Please do not forget to act according to the rulings explained in the subject article.

      Jazak Allah.

  9. Mufutau Abd. Jaleel

    Salam, I clocked forty at February, please i need the update articles.

    • Wa alaikum Salam Warahmatallah,

      Your email id has been added to our mailing list. Inshallah from now onwards, you shall receive updates about new articles in your email.

      Jazak Allah

  10. Assalaamualaikum, pls include me in your updates. Thank you

    • Wa alaikum As Salam Warahmatallah,

      Your email id has been added to our mailing list. Inshallah from now onwards you shall be receiving updates about new articles in your email.

      Jazak Allah.

  11. Assalam u Alaikum warah matuAllah…

    please add me in your mailing list to get update.
    i turned 40, 2 year back and by that time i felt same as mention in your article that i m in last 1/3 of my life so make things sort for my children but your article open my eyes towards my own akhirah.. Please pray for me to fulfill my duties towards Allah All mighty. make him happy, May Allah bless upon you and all muslims in this world and forgive us in akhira..

    • Wa alaikum As Salam Warahmatallah Wabarakatuhu,

      Your email id has been added to our mailing list. From now on, Inshallah you will receive updates about new articles in your mailbox.

      May Allah make all of us such that we perform our duties towards Allah in a perfect manner. May Allah forgive us for our mistakes, and guide us to the right path.

      Jazak Allah.

  12. Assalamu alaikum va rahmatullahi va berkatuhu
    Respected admin I found ur web page very informative n eyes opening . Became a fan of ur articles because of the simple way of writing n authenticity of quranic versus n ahadees.
    I will be 40 soon and may be due to my thirst of knowledge n desire to become a true Muslim, changing of my heart started since last year .
    Alhumdulillah I always tried to be an honest person and try to follow main Arakeen of Islam n important rules of Sharieat.
    But my heart is always in guilt n pain tht I was quit careless about my regular 5 times prayers but now Alhumdulillah I gained firm regulations or try my hardest to overcome any least weakness on tht .
    I want to ask about my qaza prayers.
    At one point I read a person who left salah due to carelessness he should only ask forgivness to Allah SWT for his past behavior coz qaza is only for emergency leavers not for carelessnes.
    aside of that I know ppl pray left prayers in the form of qaza e umry,
    how should we pray tht qaza e umry prayers? only qaza of each fard or sunat and witir too ?
    with the same prayer like fajar’s qada wid fajar prayers ?
    Can you pls guide me with this confusions .
    And please add me for updates.
    Jazak Allah u khairan

    • Wa alaikum As Salam Warahmatallah Wabarakatuhu,

      Jazak Allah for your appreciative words. All praise is for Allah alone.

      Your question about qaza prayers has been explained in one of our articles titled “Time(s) of prayers”; the article is available on our site. However, let me briefly add to the explanation provided there.

      You may offer additional qaza prayers for your missed prayers at the time of every Farz prayer. Do not do the mistake of offering one single prayer in the name of Qaza-e-Umri and thinking this shall compensate for all previously missed prayers. Rather, offer one additional qaza prayer for every previously missed Farz prayer. Yes, we should make sincere Taubah to Allah for all our prayers missed earlier.

      There is no qaza for nawafil prayers.

      Your email id has been added to our mailing list. From now on Inshallah you shall receive updates about new articles in your mailbox.

      Feel free to write back to us if any doubt persists.

      Jazak Allah.

  13. Assalam u alaikum warahmatullahi wabarkatuhu,
    Jazak Allah for your detailed reply and encouragement to clear any doubt.
    You mentioned only for nawafisl “tht there is no qaza for nawafil prayes”.
    But what about sunnat moa’qada , gair moa’qada and witir ?
    kindly explain me, do I need to include 4 rakat sunnat , 2 rakat sunnat and wirtir wid my qaza fard namaz .
    Kindly put up with my minute and childish questions for Allah Subhana wa Taala ‘s sake because I need a full n clear vision before starting my task In sha Allah
    soon.
    Jazak Allah u khairan kaseeran

    • Wa alaikum As Salam Warahmatallah Wabarakatuhu,

      All prayers other than the Farz prayers (i.e. compulsory prayers) are called Nawafil prayers (i.e. voluntary prayers). The terms Sunnah-e-Muakkada, Ghair-Muakkada, Nafils etc. are sub-divisions of Nawafil prayers.

      Even Witr falls under category of nawafil prayers. But its status is somethign in betwene compulsory and voluntary, and it is called as obligatory (i.e. responsibility).

      This concept has been explained in detail in a separate article titled “Nawafil Prayers”; the article is available at our site. Kindly go through that article for more details about this subject.

      It is your right to ask anything, howsoever childish or small it might appear to you or others. And it is my duty to respond to your query, Insha’Allah. It is not only you who gain from the response to your queries; in fact, we too gain a lot from queries of different nature/subjects; they motivate us to study more in order to respond properly. Therefore, do not be hesitant to ask anything. Do not consider any question as childish or small.

      I hope this answers your query and clarifies some of your doubts.

      And Allah knows best.

  14. Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarkatuhu
    Alhumdulillah i got my concept cleared abt this matter and again Jazak Allah u khairan.
    In sha Allah soon after last ashra I am planning to go through each n every article present on this page.they are very much important n informative.
    And also jazak Allah for helping me overcome my hesitation of asking many questions.
    In sha Allah In future I will be asking many questions about different topics I read and people share wid me because we need to have a very clear n right vision about Islam n shareeat.

    • Wa alaikum As Salam Warahmatallah Wabarakatuhu,

      You are always welcome to ask as many questions you want to. You don’t have to be hesitant in asking any type of question. May Allah bless you in your quest for learning. May Allah guide all of us to straight path.

      Jazak Allah.

  15. Assalaamualaikum, pls include me in your mailing list . Thank you

    • Wa alaikum As Salam Warahmatallah,

      Your email id has been added to our mailing list. Insha’Allah from now onwards, you shall receive updates about new articles in your mailbox.

      Brother, are you a recent entrant to the world of Islam? Please don’t mind me asking this, as your name prompted me to ask this. If yes, please accept my heartiest wishes for being part of the family Islam. In this case, I would like to suggest you to add a Muslim name to your existing name, just to differentiate from the lot and make it easier for others to distinguish. I hope you won’t mind this.

      Jazak Allah

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